Ah the dreaded end of nap time…but it doesn’t have to be dreaded!!! Enter quiet time and the magic of quiet time bins!
But what even is quiet time?!
Quiet time is simply the same as a nap except you don’t expect them to sleep.
Instead, you expect them to rest. they are expected to entertain themselves, without you in the same room, for a set amount of time. This allows you the freedom that you so desperately need in order to do a little self-care or chores around the house.
Some kids take super-naturally to it and have no problems with you setting a 30-minute or even a 1-hour timer and they chill in their rooms and entertain themselves. Other kids struggle with it just a little more and will need practice to work up to the hour time frame.
But HOW do you do actually do quiet time?!
Prior to quiet time, just like prior to nap time, is a great time to read a book together and remind them to take a bathroom break. After that, find a quiet space for them; their bedroom works great as that room is also generally childproofed quite well! I set up Bitty in our spare bedroom (because her sister is sleeping in their bedroom). I turn on some ambient music; think like meditation music or instrumental music and then I set our one of her quiet time bins on a work tray on the bed.
We have 4 quiet time bins that we rotate through. Some people like to have a bin designated for each day of the week Monday through Friday, I just have the four bins that we rotate through, and if I’m honest she prefers the bin with the Legos in it and will do that one on repeat endlessly if I let her.
Bitty still naps on alternating days. Tue, Thurs, and Sat are quiet time days and often we will use one quiet time bin for a whole week before switching. So as of right now, 4 quiet time bins are more than enough for us!
Once I have her quiet time bin pulled out I also remind her that she’s free to read books or play with the beanie babies and wooden blocks in the room and then I tell her that I’ll come get her in an hour.
She’s always allowed to leave if she needs to go to the bathroom but more often than not I don’t hear from her and she contentedly plays with the contents of the quiet time bin for the hour.
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Aim to have a few different kinds of toys in your quiet time bins
A quiet time bin sort of works like a mini toy rotation. It’s a set collection of toys that your child is only able to access during their quiet time.
You also tend to curate the toys to be slightly more calm things like puzzles, coloring, books, and Legos. The limited access and limited options make even the simplest of toys perfect for quiet time bins! Think about things that will encourage them to rest their bodies even if they won’t rest their eyes!
Because I’m extra…when I first set up our quiet time bins I tried to have similar types of toys available within each bin.
So some kind of puzzle, some kind of fidget toy, some kind of pretend play, some kind of open-ended tinkering toy, a book, etc… I’m not sure if we’re still as balanced as we were at the beginning but I do feel that each bin is fairly well balanced right now
Gotta Keep those quiet time bins organized!
Originally I kept her quiet time toys in standard shoebox-sized Sterilite containers It worked great… until we started wanting to include larger things like full-size workbooks.
After some poking around, I figured out that a scrapbook paper storage box was going to be the best solution for us. It was big enough to hold most anything I would put out for a quiet time, whether that be something big and flat like a workbook or something chunkier like a nesting doll.
The shallower bigger size of the box also allowed for easier access to the things in the box! You didn’t have to take everything out to get to the bottom of the bin you can just sort of shuffle around the contents inside of the quiet time bin.
One of the other reasons that I liked the scrapbook box system was that this came in a tower that allowed you to pull a box out without having to unstack the rest of the boxes
So it didn’t matter if she wanted the box on the top or the bottom you just slide it out, sort of like a drawer. This allows for easier access, which I’m all for making my life easier while also keeping it highly organized!
If you know me I am a big fan of all things organization! So within each of the scrapbook boxes, a lot of the toys are further sorted into small zipper pouches to keep pieces of activity together.
Quiet time bin ideas for a 3.5 year old
Below I am going to list everything that we currently have in our quiet time bins and link as many as I can! I hope that this helps give you some ideas when you are creating your own quiet time bins and even if we are putting everything in a bin I encourage you to think outside the box!
quiet time bin 1
- Usborne Peep Inside the Sea
- Notebook and colored pencils
- Felt Dressing skills objects – target dollar spot but these dressing frames would actually be better.
- magnetic dress up
- nesting yeti – Fast food toy
- ball and cup game
- cylinder puzzle
- magnetic building set – I can’t find our set but think of it as kind of a precursor to magnetic tiles. This set is a little different but still looks like fun!
- 3D printed Pokemon figures – ours are homemade but this little set would be fun!
Quiet time Bin 2
- koosh ball
- vehicle felt lacing cards (ours are from Target dollar spot) – this set looks like so much fun!
- pop tube
- Usborne Peek inside nighttime
- Color puzzle set – I cannot for the life of me find this puzzle anywhere but here is another option that is made by the same company
- Littlest Pet Shop figures ( ours are from the grocery store), but this set would be fun too
- silicon muffin liners
- Melissa & Doug ColorBlast
- Wipe and Erase Work Book
- Dry Erase Markers
Quiet time bin 3
- Mom and baby puzzle
- flexible tape measure
- old cell phone
- oil pastels
- little notebook
- hole punches – ours are from a local store but this set would be great
- Magicube puzzle and cards – if I could go back I would totally go for this mix and match set!
- Fidget pop
- Laser Pointer – ours is an old one from dad but this one would be fun
- Nesting Penguin
- Usborne Peep inside the Zoo
Quiet time bin 4
- Notebook and pens
- Melissa and Doug animal magnets
- Pet Waterwow
- lacing cheese
- Peep inside animal homes
- Magnet board – ours was gifted but this one is also a whiteboard!
- Lego Mini sets – we have the Lego Friends cat car and the Valentines set in there
- Colors and Shapes Puzzle – from the target dollar spot and this fun set is as close as I can find!
Quiet time can be pure magic.
It can help reset their day just as much as a nap can and it still gives you that much needed alone time in the middle of the day to reset, rest, and charge your own batteries!
You may even find them begging to go to quiet time early because they want to go play with their quiet time bins!!!
I would love to know what you end up putting in your quiet time bins! We have been using these for a few months now and I think we are nearing a refresh and rotation of materials! Leave a comment below or message me on Instagram so we can chat!